Don’t be that cat lady. Awareness kicked in, and I realized that my thought was triggered by fear to experience an unpleasant circumstance such as this again. Don't fall into the trap of committing to a version of a mate that isn't real. Having someone to date is easy. Don't want a relationship ever again.? My dad died when I was 4 and I'm now 39 and my mum has been on her own ever since, she says she doesn't need a man in her life, she isn't lonely either, she devoted herself to being the best mum ever bringing my brother and I up and has a huge circle of friends too. Tags . I didn’t want to get hurt again, so I would distrust everyone I met, which prevented me from welcoming new people into my life. It feels safer. You sound like you have got yourself back on track, good for you. You don’t want to be happy. 04/24/2013 12:51 pm ET Updated Jun 24, 2013 "So, you're online dating!" It turns out that the simple fact of having someone in your life doesn’t mean that you’re interested in being in a relationship, it might just mean you like having someone to date. When I'm single, I'm happy and never lonely. When you are ready, start dating around again until you can find someone who is actually a good partner for you. Ever! Over time, you will gradually start to forget about her. In the past if I say I don’t want to be in the relationship anymore he will allude to suicide and it scares me. To answer your question yes, it is normal to never want to be in a relationship and your not alone. You have to learn how to be vulnerable, and how to accept your partner’s vulnerability. Toa Heftiba/Unsplash Communication isn't easy. Women do what they feel like doing, and when you make them feel sexual they fuck you. If you’re in a relationship of convenience and you know in your heart that it’s not right, you owe it to the person you’re with to … But, once again, if you have no interest in dating ever again that is totally fine and you don't have to even consider this take. You never allowed yourself to be vulnerable enough, or available enough to another person. For Someone Who Tells Themselves, "I Don't Want To Be In A Relationship," They May Be Met With Backlash. Here are the signs that you don't actually want to be in a relationship, you're just bored. Was talking to a friend the other day, and they were shocked when I said I'm never having sex or getting in another relationship again. Here are some things to consider:-We cannot control others. You will always be loved by yourself, your friends, your family, and yes, by lovers. Wanting to have someone by your side is part of life, but it doesn’t necessarily mean anything more than that. my friend said to me at a party a few weeks ago. After a traumatic experience with marriage, the mere thought of being in a new romantic relationship used to make me my physically ill. I gotta feel it MYSELF that I’m gd enuf to be in a relationship with him. Let me explain. I would be 100% ok if we never had sex or even kissed ever again. Yes, you might find out he wanted to keep things casual. 04/24/2013 12:51 pm ET Updated Jun 24, 2013 "So, you're online dating!" That being said, I don’t want a relationship because I want to make sure that I’m the best that I can be before giving myself to someone else. 07 Wednesday Dec 2016. Try focusing on some of your favorite hobbies again. I Don't Ever Want To See You Again. I don't think I ever want a relationship again (35 Posts) Add message | Report. If you don’t adjust how you’re acting in the short-term, you will lose out as your girlfriend won’t want a relationship with you anymore. I'm just not built for it. 4. 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